The Famous Shoes Analogy
Did you ever buy a pair of shoes that you really liked, but just didn't feel right? Maybe they're a little too small, a little too big, too heavy, or just don't feel comfortable. They're great shoes, but you end up never wanting to put them on. They don't cause you pain, they don't hurt but they are irritating, annoying, just NOT RIGHT FOR YOU but you hate to have wasted money, time, and you still like the idea of them, so you don't get rid of them. However, you do know for sure that someone else would love them, and even by continuing to think about these wrong shoes, you are keeping yourself from getting some shoes that will fit you much better.
Maybe it's about time to clean the closet.